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Is Making the High School Honor Roll a Legitimate Achievement?

Students have more resources — and more pressures — than ever, yet studies suggest grade inflation is the true reason for having three-quarters of a school on the honor rolls.

 

Whitefish Bay High School bestowed honor roll or high honor roll to 686 students in the fourth quarter of the most recent school year.

The enrollment is listed as 890 this year on the WIAA website, meaning about three-quarters of the students were on that special list.

Honor rolls are similarly swelled in many suburban communities. Menomonee Falls High School had 221 seniors on last fall semester’s honor roll; the entire high school has about 1,500 students. Oak Creek High School’s list from the previous fourth quarter rolled on for 17 pages and about 800 names on an enrollment of about 2,000.

A survey by the Higher Education Research Institute at UCLA revealed last year that 45 percent of incoming college freshmen carried an “A” average in high school — yet spent less time on homework than any class in the 25 years of the survey.

Conversely, greater competition for college admission and for jobs also means a greater — and earlier — emphasis on preparation than ever. The advent of 4K — not to mention suburban helicopter parents who drill their children on reading and math before they are walking — are just two factors that suggest more kids are groomed for success.

So is the booming high school honor roll a reflection of better information and preparation? Or is it simply the product of a toothless evaluation system where every child is above average? Vote in our poll and participate in the discussion in our comments section.

  • Is making the high school honor roll a legitimate achievement?

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    • Yes
        23 (41%)
    • No
        32 (58%)
    Total votes: 55
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wfb51

6:08 am on Sunday, September 9, 2012

Kids are working way harder than most of their parents ever did. I would sugest, however, that high honor rolls reflect this by raising the grade point average needed to achieve this honor.

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Greg

5:27 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012

Way harder? What do you have to support this?

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Terry

6:48 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012

Perhaps Greg it is harder because when we were growing up, you merely had to know the facts of education to excel, i.e. the reading, writing, and arithmetic.

Now, due to the influx of PC correctness, revisionist history, pseudo science, and political brainwashing, our children are not only responsible for the basics, but they also are held to whatever particular agenda their teachers are pushing. And god help them if dare to question it.

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Greg

7:47 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012

Yep, and we didn't have to suffer with the internet and spell check. We had it easy, with books, metal shop and sniffing handouts, fresh off of the mimeograph machine. But I guess wfb is correct, we never thought that we had it hard, much less harder than our parents.

Patriot

7:21 am on Sunday, September 9, 2012

Today its all about getting that funding!!! You know the NO CHILD LEFT BEHIND BS!!! Therefore many of these so called Honor Roll students have become a product of their enviroment. It really is sad and then we wonder why we are falling behind. I know for a fact having 5 kids in the OCFSD system 2 in college now that they have been pushed thru. If these districts did not turn out all these honor roll students they would loose millions in funding!!!!
As mentioned, I find it quite interesting that my kids have minimal homework on a daily basis yet achieve honor roll status every 1/4!! Hmmmmmmmmm It really is quite sad actually!! Seems we have become a nation of YOU MUST GO TO COLLEGE to succeed. What happened to inventors, business owners, people discovering new things. Well we have to support all those over paid professors and administrative officials lavish wages and pensions. So of course our kids are groomed to succeed gettithng into the college of choice!!!!
Come on people think twice and even 3 times when casting your ballot in NOV!!! Romney/Ryan all the way!!!

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wfb51

7:44 am on Sunday, September 9, 2012

IDK - my kids all attended colleges that were highly ranked and selective in admissions and they all said it was harder in high school - especially with their having to work parttime jobs, participate in sports and charity work AND study. They felt so well prepared for college and had a no adjustment period thanks to our great public schools. Perhaps it depends on the family AND the school system but ours is fantastic. BTW I'm not being "political" like "Patriot" - I'm just stating what most parents I have spoken to have said about "kids these days" and how much more expectations are put on them to succeed. I do agree with "Patriot" that not everyone should go to college.

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Nick Poulos

7:54 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012

@Patriot, please stop drinking the tea! Continuing, continual education is a requirement for each and everyone of us for advancement in this world. Check today's NY Times for Thomas Friedman's piece.
As to the advice for November: we need to "Stay the Course" with President Obama. Turn off the tube; read; reflect; and realize that morally and ethically this Nation will be at its worst if Romney and Ryan ever were given any more power than they already have. Re-elect Obama

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Patriot

8:19 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012

@Nick-Seriously. This man and his admin is steering this Country to disaster!! I for one am in no way better off than I was 4 years ago. Obamas policies are crippling this Country!!! He has no plan to pay for his so called great ideas. Socialism will not and does not work

Bob McBride

8:08 am on Sunday, September 9, 2012

Maybe a better question would have been "Does making the honor roll mean anything?". It's a "legitimate achievement" in that it's not handed out automatically, but if 3/4 of the students are able to make the honor roll, it really doesn't mean much in the grand scheme of things.

Another question might be "Is it more important to have "Made the Honor Roll" on a kid's HS resume than it is to have the award represent a recognition of truly outstanding achievement?"

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Nicki

8:46 am on Sunday, September 9, 2012

This isn't a political issue. It's a school administrative issue. In the scheme of things, it is necessary today for a student to go on to college just to get a decent job. That piece of paper holds the key. In defense of Greendale, we have always had an excellent school system. I know many teachers who have tried for years to get hired here with no success because of the way everyone is treated in Greendale (they don't want to leave). My nephew said several years ago when he went to college in Minnesota becoming a student teacher that he never appreciated his education in the Greendale system more when he experienced the school system to which he was assigned.

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C. Sanders

8:59 am on Sunday, September 9, 2012

One can easily corroborate that the Whitefish Bay honor roll has significantly great than 50% of the student body via third party test score results. Whitefish Bay has the highest average ACT test score in the State and also boasts State Test scores of 89 for reading and 93 for math. By comparison, RUSD has state test scores in the mid forty %. Whitefish Bay is a Hugh performing system and we need to get more of that in WI.

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Heather Asiyanbi

10:16 am on Sunday, September 9, 2012

@C.Sanders - I won't argue that we need more high-performing schools because you are right, but we also can't ignore the factors of each school. Poverty is a huge issue in Racine and, thus, plays a huge part in a child's success or lack thereof. How much of an issue does poverty play in WFB? I'd gander not much.

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The Anti-Alinsky

11:27 am on Sunday, September 9, 2012

The Wisconsin Education funding mechanism is set up to give poorer districts more state shared revenue than richer districts. So while Racine may collect less in property tax revenues, it gets more in state aid.

The total cost to educate one student in Racine 2010-11 was $11,612. Whitefish Bay spent $11,291 for the same year (this was strictly classroom dollars, not transportation, facility or other costs).

It's not just HOW much is spent, but how well they spend it. With Governor Walker's reforms, there is no reason we shouldn't see an improvement in Racine's test scores. If not, the voters need to fire the Board of Education and put people in there that will get the job done!

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Lyle Ruble

12:17 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012

@Heather Asiyanbi....The North Shore public schools are modeled more on a traditional private prep schools. In comparison, they are smaller student bodies and usually the majority of students range from middle class to upper class, many coming from families of academics and professionals. The further north you go along the shore, the less diverse the student body becomes. The majority of graduates go on to four year colleges and universities. Whitefish Bay, Shorewood, Nicolet and Homestead all fall either at the top or near the top in schools in the state. I agree with you that SES has a great deal to do with the students of the institutions mentioned.

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Sunrocket

12:32 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012

Lyle - your assumption about Nicolet high school is very wrong. It is hardly a school with a small student body. It also draws from Glendale as well and there is a lot of poverty there. They also take in chapter 220 students. I went there and my kids go there. They are considered a college prep school but liking it to a private school is a mistake.

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James R Hoffa

2:02 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012

If we're to look at things honestly, all a public school can do is provide a student with the opportunity to succeed. If the student is not taking full advantage of the opportunity, for whatever reason, who's fault is it really?

Given that Racine and WFB are nearly equal in spending on a per student basis, the only way to truly find out is to switch the entire teaching staffs for a year and see what happens.

If WFB results go down with the RUSD teaching staff in place, then we'll know that the teachers bear a grunt of the responsibility.

But if WFB results remain consistent, then it just says that WFB students are more apt to take advantage of the opportunities provided to them than the students attending RUSD.

If the later ended up being the reality of the situation, who would be to blame for RUSD's performance? How would you honestly fix the performance gap found in RUSD as government can only provide the opportunity - it's up to the student to take full advantage of the provided opportunity.

Are the parents to blame? If so, what do you do about it? What can you do about it?

Poverty is merely an excuse, as people escape from poverty all the time. If some are capable of doing it, then the opportunity clearly exists for all to be able to do if only they desire to do so enough.

Attitude is key - and it would seem that government dependence only acts to worsen a person's / families attitude.

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Lyle Ruble

2:14 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012

@Sunrocket....I know that Nicolet has a large student body as well as Homestead. Nicolet does have a number of lower income students from the Glendale area and like Shorewood and Whitefish Bay accept a number of 220 students, but Nicolet, like the other three schools, I mentioned, have a very rigorous program. The secondary school is only the finishing program and one needs to look at the feeder schools also. Shorewood, Whitefish Bay, Fox Point - Bayside, East Glendale, Green Tree, Mequon and Thiensville are the feeder communities, which feed into the high schools and most of the students are pretty well set.

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Heather Asiyanbi

3:11 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012

@Anti-Alinsky - I won't argue with you about the importance of elections because we're on the same side there. But what needs to be considered is how many special ed students are in the entire student body. My neighbor is a 1st grade teacher with 32 kids in her class and an additional teacher made possible because of the SAGE program. But, out of those 32 kids, 8 to 10 of them are designated as special ed, and those kids have special needs that get mandated special attention. So while you can say RUSD and WFB cost about the same, there are many factors that also must be considered including poverty and special needs.

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Luke

8:19 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012

In defense of both the teachers and the taxpayers, teachers and money can only do so much. The families children come from are a huge factor in the success of children. Poor families with a "tiger mom" (or dad) can't be held back, which is one reason the ivy schools have been accused of trying to limit the number of Asians they enroll, because there are too many.

Invest in your own children's social and cognitive development with your own love and time and get your family the heck out of the inner city as fast as you possibly can.

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The Anti-Alinsky

8:25 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012

Heather, great point about special ed, but I think that is more of a symptom rather than the problem. I refuse to believe that, as a whole, people that live in lower income areas are less intelligent than those in more affluent areas. I do believe that the culture in under-performing areas is largely to blame. We need to invoke a fundamental change in these areas so that they become assets to this country rather than a burden.

Lyle Ruble

10:45 am on Sunday, September 9, 2012

My opinion is that the high school honor roll doesn't matter if we have grade inflation. Grades began inflating somewhere around 1966 and college grade inflation took off during the the war in Southeast Asia. Also, third party college entrance exams started going down beginning in 1966.

I am appalled at the lack of writing and critical thinking skills that college freshman are coming in with. We are graduating a large number of high school students that can't write a reasonable essay with a correct structure, proper grammar, correct spelling and can make a minimal argument to convey and support the supposition/s. Just as we don't have enough students prepared for the STEM fields, we are also not preparing students well enough for the humanities.

Decades ago when secondary education was more vigorous and grades were harder to come by, honors made a statement. Just as in Scouting, being an Eagle Scout no longer means what it used to. Although we are all invested in success, we should be more invested in truth.

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mau

12:53 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012

It used to drive us nuts when my son would write a paper and get a high grade on it. The teacher did not grade on misspellings, bad punctuation, sentence and paragraph structure.

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Richard

1:29 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012

Lyle, Have to admit that you hit a home run on your response to this issue.

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James R Hoffa

1:48 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012

Couldn't have said it better myself Lyle!

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Muskego Mike

8:35 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012

I agree with the Eagle Scout comment and I think it's very sad.

Shorelander

11:07 am on Sunday, September 9, 2012

Anyone know the WFB requirement for "Honor roll" and "High Honor roll"?

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Fred van der Wal

11:38 am on Sunday, September 9, 2012

I tent to agree with Lyle here,a note here is that I did not attend American schools but went through the European school system while growing up there.And can not but notice that correct English with proper grammar is hardly taught by middle and high school staff consequently the students lack the means and interest to level of vocabulary awareness.In todays society with mobile technology and communications teenagers and adults alike seek to use acronym/abbreviation/slang to cut corners.As language evolves,the public becomes "lazier" in it's use.
So setting higher standards through honor rolls could possible break that barrier.

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David Tatarowicz

1:08 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012

The Northshore schools make the finest and shiniest buggies ever ....

Unfortunately, the world has drastically changed from when a 4 year degree was very relevant to the actual employment opportunities.

Compound that with the actual number of students from the Northshore who actually complete college and receive a degree, and it is apparent that the Honor Roll is nothing more than a way to perpetuate a curriculum that is not preparing the students for real life requirements.

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Lyle Ruble

6:48 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012

@David Tatarowicz....I still don't understand why we changed secondary school curriculum and eliminated vocational arts courses. I was tracking one student who wasn't motivated to go on to college after graduation. He joined the military and received training in diesel mechanics. After discharge he then attended on of the technical schools and got a job with a local manufacturer of generators. He is now making a middle class living. His only complaint was that he felt he wasted about three or four years when he could have gotten basic skills training in secondary school.

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Ima Hippee

7:51 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012

David - are you tracking every student through high school, honor roll, college and post college? Petty jealousy.

Laura Farrell

2:10 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012

My Greenfield high school student brought home the Grading Scale change for this year. To obtain any grade, the points necessary has dropped. I had been confused as to why this change was made, but now after reading this article and subsequent posts, it makes sense to me. Is Greenfield trying to keep pace and make it easier for students to achieve honor role status? Last year I was distressed to learn that not all students receive text books for their chosen classes due to shortages and that some of the textbooks they receive are missing sections, etc. My son happened to be one of those missing the first 4 chapters in a textbook and was told to "share" with a classmate. I learned of the missing chapters when my son was unable to complete his homework and could not get a hold of his "sharing" partner. How do you explain that we badgered residents into paying for a new building? a new pool? but could not portion out some of those funds to pay for textbooks? and what else are the students being deprived of that it was necessary to drop the grading scale?

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Marie

2:25 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012

Koda are coddled and teachers are pressured into giving good grades. When an assignment is late, instead of giving a reduced grade or zero the assignment can usually be turned in by end of semester and still be counted.

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Unions_NO

9:54 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012

@Marie: assignments in the AP classes at GTOWN HS that my daughter has taken cannot be turned in late at all. She broke her leg last year, and we spent the evening late at the hospital until nearly midnight. We have raised her to always have the assignment or project done the day before it is due, just in case. She dragged herself in, half asleep, on crutches and handed over the flash drive with the project on it. It was good for her to see that like adults in the real world, when it is due, it is due. She said she was glad that we had raised her and her sister that way. I also laugh a little at the article. When they were in elementary and middle school, the cut off for an A-/B+ was 93, not 90/89. In addition, many of the GTOWN AP classes do not give out any A+ grades, only an A, regardless of how high the percent is. That seems to annoy her.She enjoys her studies and doesn't understand why she should not get the + if she gets 100 or a 99. So, to answer the question, YES, it is an accomplishment IF the school you are attending makes it tough to get the good grade. If there is a curve, then NO.

Warriors Mom

7:33 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012

I'm proud that my son makes it, I NEVER did!

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Greg

8:07 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012

Make sure you get the bumper sticker.

Nuitari

8:40 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012

I'd say how many likes you get on Facebook is a more important achievement now.

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Atron

9:38 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012

As one who works with some of the upper class kids, I can say that they are dumber than a box of rocks. Oh sure, they maybe know a little about some far out theories in math, science and what not, but they know little else, let alone anything practical and being able to work with ones hands and brain and real world problem solving. Work ethic, forget about it. Some are to dumb or too lazy to read a work schedule, let along show up for work at the appointed time. Unless you have a cell phone taped to a work assignment, little gets done as many have withdrawal symptoms. I ask what they need calculus for, or AP anything, etc. The standard answer is that "they don't, but they have to take it". Civics, not even on the radar screen. Many can't tell you who their school principal is, let along any other elected "leaders" from local to the world. These are your future voters!!! The school systems and their parents are driving their kids into the ditch with the major emphasis on sports of all kinds and the excessive taxpayer spending that goes with it. Its all about playtime rather than practical things. Its about time we get back to reality and people being able to do things and have problem solving skills instead of some far out book learning that gets you on the "Honor Roll". You can't eat the honor roll, but working with you hands and brain you can put food on the table.

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Warriors Mom

10:08 pm on Sunday, September 9, 2012

No bumper stickers for me Greg.

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wfb51

7:39 am on Monday, September 10, 2012

There is not a huge problem with grade inflation - if most of the kids study hard and excell on the tests how do you reflect that - give kids different grades for the same score? What are you going to do give one an A and one a B just cause?

Anybody with teens knows that they have to compete much harder than before to vie for admission into top schools. Perhaps in the 70s less kids tried to apply to these schools and more kids opted for trade schools, IDK. I will tell you it is truly much more competitive now. My friends joke that we wouldn't have gotten into college now with how little studying we did "back in the day". Talk to the guidence staff or college prep teachers - the hoops kids have to jump through now is way more than we had to: grades, leadership, jobs, volunteering, sports/music.

Perhaps this is just more reflective of the North Shore. No lie but when I volunteered with first graders I heard six year olds talking about wanting to go to Harvard when they grew up. Honestly, our schools are great but the families are the main influence and set the tone by example. The apples don't fall far from the trees!

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Sunrocket

4:11 pm on Monday, September 10, 2012

I went to Nicolet in the 70's and it was not easy. With class sizes over 500, Madison only took the top 10% so there was indeed competition. I know people today think kids have it much harder but think about it - prior to the late 90's you actually had to go to a library and look things up in a book for reference, there was no internet, no social media to converse with classmates. You had to actually pick up a phone. Most of us also had jobs back then as well as sports and extracurricular activities. I am also reminded of my forefathers that in addition to school worked jobs with much longer hours than kids do now. I am not saying that the curriculum is the same as it was in the past but parents today just think their kids have it harder because they are coddled too much. It is the parents that are competitive. They all want to think that their little Johnny is so much more special than my Billy because he get's A's and plays volleyball and soccer too. I left the house at 7 a.m. in high school, went to school, did after school things, worked, came home, ate dinner, and did homework. All without my parents steering my way. They expected and assumed I got my homework done without standing over me the whole time. If I had not done it - my grades were reflected. I truly fear for the future with this current generation.

Lyle Ruble

1:37 pm on Monday, September 10, 2012

@wfb51...If the course work is sufficiently challenging, then the grade distribution should resemble a standard bell curve. If a curve skews to far one way or another, it is an indication that the course is either too easy or too hard. If there are too many As and Bs, then the course is not rigorous enough. The vast distribution should be around C level. One of the critical issues to discuss in parent-teacher conferences is the grade distribution. As far as I'm concerned there isn't any reason for a grade of A+. My preference is fail/pass and to graduate a student must take comprehensive exams at the end of school. That is when class standing would also be determined. this is the way that most European systems work.

I really don't think students are all that challenged in secondary schools. Back in the day; most of us also participated in volunteer work, sports programs and work. We didn't get any breaks with our academic performance because of outside activities.

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CowDung

2:13 pm on Monday, September 10, 2012

I like the idea of an exit exam, but it seems that a pass/fail system without grades or class rankings would make it difficult to identify students that would benefit from taking honors/AP level courses, and weed out those that aren't academically prepared to be taking those courses.

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Bren

2:26 pm on Monday, September 10, 2012

A young relative of mine (a reverse 220 student) didn't get a break on academic performance because of an outside activity in high school, but it did provide the opportunity to use that activity as a phy ed independent study, freeing that hour for another AP class.

While that worked well for the relative, I have to reflect that this is yet another symptom of the uneven playing field. Another MPS student without an extracurricular activity may not have had the same opportunity.

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Lyle Ruble

5:19 pm on Monday, September 10, 2012

@CowDung...There wouldn't be such a thing as AP courses. Just like when I was in school, harder courses were only offered to higher achieving students and could only be recommended by instructors.

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wfb51

7:01 am on Tuesday, September 11, 2012

I respect your opinion BUT in a community like ours where the kids work hard it will not reflect a bell curve. Given that kids perform well on the ACT, SAT, SAT 11 and and the AP tests that is proof that many are, indeed, above average.

There is a lot of pressure on these kids - why burn them out by making sure there are enough C's to make YOU happy? Especially when the kids have shown they have mastered the material in class.

Angelene

5:08 am on Tuesday, September 11, 2012

The RUSD didn't even post High School honor rolls in the paper for 2010-2011 school year. My daughter had high honors (3.75 GPA) wanted to see her name in the paper & due to a rearranging in the infrastructure of Central Office I was told they didn't have time to put it in there. Thankfully, they put 2011-2012 Honor Roll in the paper. I think that with all the negativity put out about our schools & teachers in the District, it is nice to see something positive & Honor Roll reflects that.

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Christine

12:55 pm on Tuesday, September 11, 2012

When I was in HS, I was required to take ONE science class, no economics, no physics, and I had all my homework done by 9pm. I had to, because it was lights out in my house at 10pm. No exceptions. (Even when I was in college, which resulted in my moving into the dorms, even though school was only 5 miles away.) These kids are beat. They have reflux and dark circles under their eyes at 16. =

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Greg

1:15 pm on Tuesday, September 11, 2012

But they have time to text, IM, facebook....etc. Some studies show students average 6 hours per day on these items.

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wfb51

8:13 am on Wednesday, September 12, 2012

Oh Greg.....like YOU didn't have time to watch TV, talk on the phone and attend football and basketball games (a lot of kids don't attend all of these games like I did bc they are busy doing their own activites - including studying). I for one wasted a lot of time practicing fancy ways of signing my signature (including the dreaded o over the letter i) and trying to figure out the best ways to "bump into" cute guys in the hall between classes LOL>

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Greg

10:36 am on Wednesday, September 12, 2012

wfb51, It sounds like you had a lot of time to hone you excuse making skills too. I guess I live in a world of reality and I only pointed out that the claims of "reflux and dark circles" are overreaction, by the gullible. I had many activities outside of school, but my parents never hopped on the overworked student pity bus. If your kids are that overworked, you had better find out why, but I bet it is because they are feeding you BS, with a pitch fork and you are eating every bit of it.

wfb51

8:05 pm on Wednesday, September 12, 2012

Honestly, you don't have a clue what goes ion n someone else's house - what stupidity to comment. I am around 24/7 - very involved with my family. I never said they were overworked - just working harder than we all had to years ago. THAT is a given in the North Shore - I don't think to speculate what is happening in your house or your school system. Unlkie you - I don't pretend to know what is transpiring in a stranger's house. Have you gone through the college admission process with kids? Have they attempted and had sucess getting into competiive colleges and universities? Was this achieved by their getting to bed at 9:00 pm?

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Greg

11:26 am on Thursday, September 13, 2012

"Honestly, you don't have a clue what goes ion n someone else's house - what stupidity to comment."
Take your own advice. Read the thread again and see who went off track. As for the rest of your questions, my kids attend Marquette and Xavier, they worked hard and played hard, but they never played their parents for a fool. At any time my kids were over tired, we addressed the problem and found the source to be other than school work.

Sunrocket

8:14 pm on Wednesday, September 12, 2012

wfb51 - I hope it is worth it for your kids in the end...........................There are many way's to be successful. Not all of them have to make a person crazy.

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wfb51

8:00 am on Thursday, September 13, 2012

Read my above posts - I NEVER said MY kids were worked into a craze - I just said they work harder than WE had to in the past. And, yes, they are happy and well-adjusted and a couple are now graduates from fine colleges and paying hefty amount of taxes! We are a work hard, play hard family and they are well-rounded. I consider them successful BC they are also kind and funny in additon to hard-working.

Why the judgement? All I have said is that kids work harder today than kids did in the past so they deserve to be rewarded. This certainly does not pertain to schools that just "pass" kids, obvi, but it does pertain to schools that expect achievement. I think most people from high-achieving schools would agree. I never said my family is crazed just that they have to try a little harder to get into the same types of colleges my husband and I got into. The environment today is much more competetive - look ---you have 4 year olds in organized sports! I never said I agree with this - I just said it exists. I am simply acknowleging that aspect.

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wfb51

8:53 pm on Saturday, September 22, 2012

umm - Greg - you continue to judge so I must comment that I am talking about kids that are trying to get ACT scores in the 31 plus range in order to compete for spots at TOP schools. No judgement but check on the average scores of different schools than your kids are in and also the requirements of grades, etc.

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Greg

8:58 pm on Saturday, September 22, 2012

Please quote WTF you think you are talking about.

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